{"id":3211,"date":"2021-04-06T21:53:27","date_gmt":"2021-04-06T21:53:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/farefwd.com\/?p=3211"},"modified":"2021-04-06T21:53:32","modified_gmt":"2021-04-06T21:53:32","slug":"silence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/farefwd.com\/index.php\/2021\/04\/06\/silence\/","title":{"rendered":"Silence"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"3211\" class=\"elementor elementor-3211\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-732f48d6 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"732f48d6\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-a8df3a2\" data-id=\"a8df3a2\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-176e4069 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"176e4069\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-74c1176e\" data-id=\"74c1176e\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a7c22a3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"a7c22a3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"708\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farefwd.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Silence-3D.jpg?fit=768%2C708&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"attachment-medium_large size-medium_large wp-image-3212\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farefwd.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Silence-3D.jpg?w=1500&amp;ssl=1 1500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farefwd.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Silence-3D.jpg?resize=300%2C277&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farefwd.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Silence-3D.jpg?resize=1024%2C944&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farefwd.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Silence-3D.jpg?resize=768%2C708&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2b96e869 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2b96e869\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Noise, Silence, and the Space Between\n<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-6c2197b3 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"6c2197b3\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7c12aaa9\" data-id=\"7c12aaa9\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-55a79cab elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"55a79cab\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-5e7f8c9a\" data-id=\"5e7f8c9a\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5a0b57b7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5a0b57b7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Cultivating habits of silence can help us find a less distracted, more abundant life.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c8c5fdd elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c8c5fdd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><em>Review by Christopher Kuo<\/em><\/p><p><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-4fc7b204\" data-id=\"4fc7b204\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f124f6f elementor-drop-cap-yes elementor-drop-cap-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f124f6f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;drop_cap&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div id=\"output\" class=\"page-generator__output js-generator-output\"><p>The last thing that Erling Kagge did before starting his journey across Antarctica was to toss the batteries for his radio in the rubbish bin of the departing plane. Kagge is a Norwegian explorer and the first person ever to complete the \u201cThree Poles Challenge,\u201d which requires trekking across the North and South Poles and summiting Mt. Everest, the \u201cThird Pole.\u201d He is also the first person to reach the South Pole alone\u2014an experience that revealed to him the wonder and beauty of silence.<\/p><p>\u201cAlone on the ice, far into that great white nothingness, I could both hear and feel the silence,\u201d Kagge writes in <em>Silence: In the Age of Noise, <\/em>a collection of essays in which he reminds us of the transformative power of quietness: its ability to help us reflect, wonder, truly notice, and give thanks.<\/p><p>We urgently need his reminder. Noise saturates our lives. It pings from our smartphones, chimes in our inboxes, blares from the television, hisses from the coffeemaker, bubbles up from our coworkers and family. From morning to night, we swim in a sea of noise.<\/p><p>The rise of new technologies has only exacerbated the presence of sound in our lives. We almost always have our smartphones with us, meaning there is no time or space where noise cannot intrude. Even our bedrooms can be equipped with Alexa or Google Home, turning oases of silence into nodes in our aggressively interconnected world. We may try to escape to nature, but noise follows us there as well, in the steady drone of cars or the rumble of airplanes overhead. There are fewer and fewer places where one can find complete silence.<\/p><p>In light of this, there\u2019s a growing recognition of the dangers of noise pollution. One 2011 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.who.int\/quantifying_ehimpacts\/publications\/e94888\/en\/\">report<\/a> by the World Health Organization found that noise pollution could lead to higher blood pressure and fatal heart attacks. Other <a href=\"https:\/\/www.apa.org\/monitor\/2011\/07-08\/silence\">studies<\/a> show that noise pollution can inhibit learning and development, especially among children.<\/p><p>But noise does more than inhibit our learning or harm our physiology. At a more fundamental level, noise can rob us of purposeful, meaningful lives. It\u2019s difficult to confront the big questions of a virtuous life\u2014why we are here, who we are, and what it means to be human\u2014when we are surrounded by noise. Noise, after all, is often a form of distraction. In this sense, noise may be one symptom of a more deep-rooted issue: our drive to be constantly doing things in order to avoid pausing to ask ourselves why. We are hurried creatures, constantly on the move. We are afraid to slow down, turn off our technology, and breathe for a moment, because we are unsure of what we might find. Beneath all the noise, we might discover ourselves\u2014and that terrifies us. As seventeenth-century philosopher Blaise Pascal put it, \u201cAll of humanity\u2019s problems stem from man\u2019s inability to sit quietly in a room alone.\u201d Kagge describes a study from Harvard and the University of Virginia where researchers put participants alone in a room for six to fifteen minutes. They gave the individuals the option to administer a painful shock to themselves to reduce their time in silence. Nearly half of the participants chose this option.<\/p><p>We fear silence. And yet, if we want to be fully human\u2014if we want to rightly inhabit this strange and wondrous world\u2014we must learn to be quiet. Silence can save our world.<\/p><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-6ef8f0d1 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"6ef8f0d1\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-2e59ba5f\" data-id=\"2e59ba5f\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-1f55ba39 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1f55ba39\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-4a29fc25\" data-id=\"4a29fc25\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6b823aaf elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"6b823aaf\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"226\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farefwd.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/FF-Quotation-1.png?fit=300%2C226&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium wp-image-520\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farefwd.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/FF-Quotation-1.png?w=309&amp;ssl=1 309w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farefwd.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/FF-Quotation-1.png?resize=300%2C226&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7267e3be elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7267e3be\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Big ideas need time, space, and silence to germinate. They require attention and concentration\u2014two qualities often sacrificed on the altar of noise.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-737d4e93\" data-id=\"737d4e93\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-19f56bc1 elementor-drop-cap-yes elementor-drop-cap-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"19f56bc1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;drop_cap&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div id=\"output\" class=\"page-generator__output js-generator-output\"><p>If noise undermines our ability to think and to truly live, then silence is our recourse to an abundant life. Silence allows us to be alone with our thoughts, our fears and our doubts. It enables us to slow down from the hectic pace of life and to contemplate the transcendent. It gives us space to breathe.<\/p><p>Silence is a source of self-awareness and creativity, while noise is the enemy of contemplation. When we are relentlessly distracted, we lose opportunities to examine ourselves: Why do I do what I do? How did I come here? Where am I headed? What or whom do I truly care about?<\/p><p>We also need silence for the intellectual life. Big ideas need time, space, and silence to germinate. They require attention and concentration\u2014two qualities often sacrificed on the altar of noise. As Lane Wallace wrote in <em>The Atlantic<\/em>, \u201cJust try to imagine Henry David Thoreau writing his masterpiece about Walden Pond while twittering, texting, and watching CNN.\u201d<\/p><p>Just as noise can have harmful effects on our physical bodies, silence can do the opposite. <a href=\"https:\/\/psychcentral.com\/blog\/the-hidden-benefits-of-silence\">Research<\/a> has shown that exposure to silence can help reduce stress, and one study found that mice that were exposed to silence exhibited growth of new brain cells in the hippocampus.<\/p><p>Religious groups have long recognized the importance of silence to the human soul. In <em>The Screwtape Letters, <\/em>C. S. Lewis writes from the perspective of an elder demon instructing a younger one. He describes the role that noise plays in our world:<\/p><p><em>Music and silence\u2014how I detest them both! How thankful we should be that ever since Our Father [Satan] entered Hell\u2026 no square inch of infernal space and no moment of infernal time has been surrendered to either of those abominable forces, but all has been occupied by Noise\u2014Noise, the grand dynamism, the audible expression of all that is exultant, ruthless, and virile\u2014Noise which alone defends us from silly qualms, despairing scruples, and impossible desires. We will make the whole universe a noise in the end.<\/em><\/p><p>Screwtape recognized the spiritual power posed by silence. When we eliminate noise, we find time and space to hear God\u2019s voice.<\/p><p>In 1 Kings 19, God tells Elijah to go out on a mountainside to prepare to meet the Lord. \u201cA great and powerful wind tore the mountains apart and shattered the rocks before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind.\u201d An earthquake came next, then a raging fire, but the Lord was not in either. Finally, Elijah heard a gentle voice\u2014the whisper of God. How are we to hear this divine whisper when we are always listening to something else? We must \u201cbe still\u201d before we can know that He is God (Ps. 46:10).<\/p><p>But silence does more than point us to the divine; it also re-orients us to the world around us. Silence is not escapism. Instead, Kagge writes, embracing silence is about \u201cseeing the world a bit more clearly.\u201d As he trudged across the ice, Kagge began to notice unexpected things: the varying shapes of the ice, the blue tint of the snow, the constantly shifting wind. \u201cThe landscape seemed to be changing along the route; but I was wrong,\u201d he wrote. \u201cMy surroundings remained constant; I was the one who changed \u2026 Nature spoke to me in the guise of silence. The quieter I became, the more I heard.\u201d Silence taught him to notice.\u00a0<\/p><p>About two years ago, I spent a full day of silence during a camping trip with friends in the Adirondacks. After canoeing across a lake to a spot in the woods, we decided that the next day none of us would speak to each other until dark. I spent most of the day at the lakeside, watching the water lap at the rocks, staring up at the gray sky. We broke our silence over a warm fire and tacos. At the time, I didn\u2019t think anything miraculous had happened. I hadn\u2019t seen a sign in the sky or heard a booming voice from God. Still, to this day, I remember the caress of the rain on my face, the damp smell of pine needles, and the sound of water lapping against the rocks. I remember an abiding sense of peace, a wonder at the beauty of the world around me. And that, too, is a miracle.\u00a0<\/p><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5944a634 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5944a634\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3c1ea3c0\" data-id=\"3c1ea3c0\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-2ac831d9 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2ac831d9\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-37f73dc5\" data-id=\"37f73dc5\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4979627c elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"4979627c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"226\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farefwd.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/FF-Quotation-1.png?fit=300%2C226&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium wp-image-520\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farefwd.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/FF-Quotation-1.png?w=309&amp;ssl=1 309w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farefwd.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/FF-Quotation-1.png?resize=300%2C226&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-482be57a elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"482be57a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Since not all of us have the luxury of time or money to escape for weeks to secluded landscapes, we must find silence in the nooks and crannies of everyday life: an accumulation of small, still moments that creates an atmosphere of quietness.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-2bc7fff\" data-id=\"2bc7fff\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-18ed6d5 elementor-drop-cap-yes elementor-drop-cap-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"18ed6d5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;drop_cap&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div id=\"output\" class=\"page-generator__output js-generator-output\"><p>The coronavirus pandemic has been a gigantic semicolon. It has put a pause on many of life\u2019s everyday activities, from office work to cocktail parties. It has caused the world to go quiet in a way that hasn\u2019t happened in decades. One <em>New York Times <\/em>writer called this season the \u201csilent spring.\u201d Reporters throughout the world have documented how the coronavirus has caused empty streets, shuttered stores, and hushed cities. An eerie quiet has descended on our world.<\/p><p>On the one hand, the disruption of the pandemic has given us an opportunity to re-examine our lifestyles. Stripped of our normal routines, we have the chance to experiment with new rhythms of silence.<\/p><p>At the same time, this pandemic has been anything but peaceful. Many of us are cloistered in homes that are rarely quiet. My home is a case in point: I live with my family of five, along with my grandparents and the home help aides who care for them, meaning there are at least eight people in the house at all times.<\/p><p>More fundamentally, we can\u2019t all leave for the South Pole or take months off to hike Mt. Everest\u2014not during normal times and especially not during a pandemic. Silence often seems like a luxury, the property of those who have the money and time to lavish on month-long wilderness expeditions. Though silence is crucial to our wellbeing, we are tasked with finding more feasible ways to experience it.<\/p><p>William Cronon addresses this dilemma in <em>The Trouble with Wilderness. <\/em>Responding to the false dichotomy in which \u201cwilderness\u201d is separated from everyday life, Cronon argues that wilderness doesn\u2019t have to be found in some pristine landscape. We can and should look for wilderness in the mundane: \u201cin the seemingly tame fields and woodlots of Massachusetts, in the cracks of a Manhattan sidewalk, even in the cells of our own bodies.\u201d<\/p><p>The same could be said about silence. Since not all of us have the luxury of time or money to escape for weeks to secluded landscapes, we must find silence in the nooks and crannies of everyday life: an accumulation of small, still moments that creates an atmosphere of quietness. \u201cYou cannot wait for silence,\u201d Kagge advises. \u201cYou have to find your own South Pole.\u201d<\/p><p>So, how do we truly experience silence in our everyday lives, in those mundane moments where the baby is crying, the phone is ringing, and the spouse is shouting your name?<\/p><p>We start by controlling and eliminating what we can. Kagge calls this a form of \u201csubtraction.\u201d Subtraction requires the virtue of self-control, the ability to say \u201cno\u201d to the noise in our lives. This isn\u2019t easy, especially since we are often addicted to noise. Kagge describes the dopamine loop that occurs because of our phone notifications. \u201cThe more we are inundated, the more we wish to be distracted&#8230;. We don\u2019t know if we have received an email, message or other form of communication so we check and recheck our phones like a one-armed bandit in an attempt to achieve satisfaction.\u201d<\/p><p>Breaking out of this habit requires more than just saying \u201cno\u201d in the moment to instant gratification. This expression of self-control is what social scientists call \u201ceffortful inhibition,\u201d what we often think of as brute willpower. But <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC4731333\/\">researchers<\/a> have shown that effortful inhibition can actually backfire: \u201csuppressing an unwanted impulse can, ironically, make it more likely to influence behavior.\u201d The ability to practice effortful inhibition can also decrease with tiredness or stress.<\/p><p>Instead, Angela Duckworth and Brian Galla from the University of Pennsylvania argue that there\u2019s a component to self-control beyond effortful inhibition. This component is habit formation. Habits are powerful because they are automatic. Once someone has a habit in place, they don\u2019t have to consciously think about saying \u201cno&#8221; to a harmful behavior. Their effortful inhibition is actually <em>reduced. <\/em>Duckworth and Galla\u2019s conclusion was that self-controlled people achieve their long-term goals in large part because of the cultivation of habits.<\/p><p>Let\u2019s apply this logic to the pursuit of silence in our daily lives. Given the addictive nature of technology, we may struggle to stop checking notifications in the moment. We may find ourselves sinking back into the sea of noise. Instead, we can work to cultivate everyday <em>liturgies<\/em> of silence. Liturgies, according to James K. A. Smith, are \u201chabit-forming, love-shaping rituals that get hold of our hearts and aim our loves.\u201d<\/p><p>We shouldn\u2019t evade the demands of family and home, but we can carve out times to silence our phones, log off Twitter or stop scrolling through Instagram. We can wake up earlier than usual, before the demands of the day press upon us. We can speak less than we normally would, or think longer before each word. In my own cultivation of silence, I\u2019ve committed to reading Scripture before powering on my phone, not checking email before 11 a.m., and turning off technology an hour before I go to bed.<\/p><p>Find what works for you. In my own life, these practices have been life-giving. Instead of pulling me away from the world, they have oriented my heart more fully to the people and God who I love.<\/p><p>Take a chance today. Turn off your phone for an hour, or hit the \u201cDo Not Disturb\u201d button for the day. Be bold in creating new habits. Carve out time for stillness. Silence\u2014and the abundant life\u2014awaits.<\/p><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-676ac8dc elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"676ac8dc\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-3548d77\" data-id=\"3548d77\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-46d61291 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"46d61291\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong><em>Christopher Kuo<\/em><\/strong><em> is a student at Duke University majoring in English and Political Science and completing a certificate in Policy Journalism and Media Studies. He is features managing editor of Duke\u2019s student newspaper and editor-in-chief of <\/em>Duke Crux<em>, a journal of Christian thought. He will be working as a Metro intern at the <\/em>Los Angeles Times<em> this summer. Twitter: @chriskuo17.<\/em><\/p><p><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-1611c2af\" data-id=\"1611c2af\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-661274cc elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"661274cc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><em>This piece was written as part of the Veritas Institute, a program of the Veritas Forum at which college students spend a week learning from top scholars in the fields of science and technology and write an essay about a topic at the intersection of science and the big questions. 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